Maybe you find yourself in constant conflict with your partner.It didn't start out as conflict. But slowly things like miscommunication, criticism, and finger pointing begin to escalate and changed the atmosphere of your home. You may wonder how it ever got so bad. Maybe it feels like your partner is unable to do anything right and that your relationship is too far gone.

Maybe it feels like you're drifting apart. You aren't fighting but it feels like you're living separate lives beside each other. Drift is when the partners no longer understand each other. Their relationship grew cold. Over time, they began to live parallel lives and don't connect as they used to. This is when people might start asking the question, “Why do I still bother?” One or both spouses might start thinking that they could do better with someone else.

Here’s the good news. There is hope, and with the right tools and commitment from both partners, it is possible to have a better relationship than ever. It will take re-learning what it means to communicate properly. It will take building up fondness & respect, and building long term rituals.

We have tools. Our couples therapists are trained using the Gottman method. Let us help you to assess the strengths/weaknesses of your marriage. We can build a comprehensive plan to re-spark the love you had.