Growing up my family called me ‘shy boy’—I had a hard time being around people. I had to learn the power of authenticity. 

Often when we are struggling we usually shut down and don’t tell anyone. I found a group of guys who was willing to be real with me and talk about what it means to be an authentic man. Instead of hiding I had the chance to be open about who I was. That’s what started the journey for me. 

As I got older I had a lot of mentoring, teaching or leading roles. I noticed people with issues or problems gravitated towards me and wanted to talk with them. I began running into issues that I didn’t have the skillset to support. That inspired me to get my MACP and pursue a profession in counselling services. 

I have watched people discover their authentic self, find clarity and discover their passion. I am so thrilled to join them on that journey. 

This is sometimes easier said than done. There's no simple way to discern what your passion is, or what to pursue. Some important deciding factors will be your personality, your likes and interests, what motivates you in life. With some reflection, you'll be able to consider what those motivators are. 

I like using the following process with clients. Rather than creating pipe dreams, it gives an achievable path forward with fallback options. 

• Plan A: If you didn't change anything in your life, what would be the best version look like in the next 5 years? 
• Plan B: If your original plans didn't work out, what would be an alternative plan you could pursue? 
• Plan C: What would be an option if neither of those plans worked out? 

We then create a detailed plan for ALL THREE options, thinking about what steps it would take to make each dream come alive. 

This plan is great for people who are feeling stuck in life. If you feel paralyzed when you think about the future, or if you have so many ideas swirling around that it's hard to create a concrete plan, this activity is for you. 

What would an ABC plan look like in your life? 

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